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80Hope May 22, 2012 at 1:33 pm
Another tip; a woman should not say stuff in a hard, masculine fashion or give ultimatums like “Either stop contacting me or step it up.” The more a woman uses hard, sharp and demanding phrasing combined with stereotypical “bitchy” tones, the more men will dismiss her.

The best way to talk to a man is to use a soft, small voice, be emotionally vulnerable to disarm his armor, and penetrate his armor with sweetness and kindness. That is the most brutal combination of attacks that render most men virtually defenseless. Don’t be shrill, don’t be melodramatic, don’t be loud, and don’t be bitchy. Instead, be feminine.

What she could have said instead: “I like hanging out with you, but it seems like you aren’t that into me. If you really do like me, please talk to me more, take me out somewhere, and spend more time with me. I don’t want to get hurt, so if you don’t like me that way, it would be best if you told me now.”

There. If he is built like a normal person, he’d feel guilty if he wanted to just pump and dump her, and would probably stop contacting her. He’d be happy if he really liked her and did want to see her more, and now he has verbal confirmation that he can and should. She comes across as more vulnerable, which is more attractive. There are no downsides.

81OffTheCuff May 22, 2012 at 1:34 pm
Obviously a player, from very beginning. Plowed through the “but we work together” shit test effortlessly.

82Liza207 May 22, 2012 at 1:34 pm
Hi Hope @71,

I get what you’re saying.

“… and having to do this over and over again spending lots of money on different women.”
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Players only do this for certain women this is not how most operate. If they can get something for nothing they normally go for that. But if the woman has a high enough SMV he will ask her out on an actual date. Men will work harder to get a very attractive because he knows it wont be as easy to bed her.