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Yes, younger men may enjoy dating older women, but would they consider them as life partners? Some, yes, but not all...

I feel that older women should be a little more cautious when dating a younger guy. If your aim is to find a long-time partner or to get married, make sure that your partner is also thinking along those lines and that he isn't seeing you just for the convenience of dating a mature woman.

Interesting. There are plenty of good men and good women "out there." But add in kids, work, looking for work, a more isolated society, a more superficial society (internet dating certainly fosters a "if not this one, next..." mentality) -

it just ain't easy. I think the advice this gentleman was given is all you can provide without more detail. Live your life, be a good dad, be open.

As for the "women don't want a nice guy" thing? Not true.

12:05 PM
Anonymous said...
Maybe this man is simply a victim of bad luck. It happens to the best of us. But something doesn't seem quite right about this letter to me. Most older women I know aren't bothered at all by a man's being divorced, so I wonder about the ages of the women he is dating. With so many nice women out there, how is it that he manages to choose women who are THAT crazy? Also, I've met a number of single men who seem to unwittingly shoot themselves in the foot.